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NARCISSISTIC ABUSE 101 - IT'S ABOUT TIME
One of the key "tells" of a narcissist is the speed with which they commit to a relationship. If he/she/they are declaring love early on...
May 21, 20242 min read


Toxic care
It's a thing Spot the difference Abuse can sound something like this: "Are you sure you're ok? You're looking a bit pale - maybe skip...
Jan 30, 20246 min read


When The Narcissist is Your Parent
Content Note: Mentions parental abuse; trauma; dissociation "Children are...programmed to be fundamentally loyal to their caregivers,...
Aug 11, 20233 min read


When the Narcissist is an Addict
Content Note: Mentions parental abuse; trauma; dissociation "Addiction - When you can give up something any time, as long as it's next...
Aug 11, 20235 min read


A Perfect Murder
Content Note: Mentions Abuse, Addiction, Eating Disorders. Make no mistake, narcissistic abuse (NA) kills. Not in any obvious way, of...
Aug 10, 20233 min read


What is Narcissistic Abuse?
The term “narcissist” peppers many everyday conversations as an indication of someone self-serving, vain or self-important. It is...
Aug 10, 20234 min read


For Partners
Content Note: Mentions Abuse, Depression, Anxiety, PTSD Your partner tells you he or she was in a narcissistically abusive relationship. ...
Aug 1, 20235 min read


A note on Toxic Positivity
Understanding the importance of honesty (Content warning; shame, addiction, anxiety) Count your blessings It could be worse Think of...
May 5, 20234 min read


The Emperor’s New Clothes
addiction, moving on, narcissistic abuse, relationships, survival On Exposing the Narcissist “But the Emperor has nothing on at all!”...
Mar 31, 20233 min read


50 Shades of Gaslighting
explainer, moving on, narcissistic abuse, narcissistic parents, relationships, survival “I’m listening to it now, darling. Sleep well...
Mar 13, 20235 min read


It’s Complicated
suicide, addiction, trauma, abuse, shame Trauma and Complex PTSD Repeated trauma in adult life erodes the structure of the personality ...
Nov 24, 20225 min read


Are You Suffering from Parental Burnout?
custody, long reads, narcissistic abuse, parenting, relationships ou’ve likely heard of burnout, most often it is talked about in the ...
Nov 18, 20223 min read


Narcissism by Proxy
addiction, advice, explainer, moving on, narcissistic abuse, narcissistic parents, parenting, relationships, survival Content note:...
Oct 11, 20225 min read


Suffer little children
c ustody, long reads , narcissistic abuse , parenting , relationships Parental Alienation and estrangement Without exception, the...
Jan 30, 20225 min read


Liar, liar…
long reads, narcissistic abuse, relationships, I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you...
Sep 7, 20216 min read


Stockholm Syndrome – Adapting to Survive
explainer, long reads, narcissistic abuse Content Note: Emotional Abuse, Co-dependency, Financial Abuse, Divorce “I mean, they call it...
Jun 21, 20214 min read


Note to Self
moving on, narcissistic abuse, relationships, survival Content note: Divorce; Narcissistic abuse; Narcissistic family & relations You may...
May 7, 20214 min read
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